Wealth Management · 2026-06-09

Is Your Advisor Actually Working for You? The 5 Questions Every HNI Must Ask

Commission or fee-only. Distributor or RIA. The difference defines whose interests your advisor actually serves. Most Indian families have never asked.

CA Ujjwal SainaniFounding & Managing Partner · NextGen Family Office Services
7 min read

Most Indian families never ask this question. They assume the person managing their money is on their side. Often they are not — not because they are dishonest, but because their business model points elsewhere.

❌ Commission-Based Advisor

Earns when you buy a product
Higher commission = stronger recommendation
Incentive to keep you invested (trail fees)
SEBI registered as distributor, not advisor
No legal obligation to act in your interest
Conflict is structural, not personal
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✓ Fee-Only Advisor

Earns only what you pay them
No product = no commission = no conflict
Incentive is your long-term outcome
SEBI Registered Investment Adviser (RIA)
Legal fiduciary duty to act in your interest
Alignment is structural, not optional

The 5 Questions Every HNI Family Should Ask Their Advisor

1
"Are you registered as an RIA with SEBI, or as a distributor?" A distributor cannot legally give investment advice for a fee. If your advisor earns commissions, they are a distributor — even if they call themselves a wealth manager, financial advisor, or family office.
2
"Do you earn any trail fees, commissions, or referral income from what you recommend to us?" Trail fees are ongoing commissions paid by the fund house every year your money stays in the fund. Many advisors earn these without disclosing them clearly. Ask for a written answer.
3
"Can you show us the net return on our portfolio — after all fees, charges, and taxes?" Gross returns look good. Net returns tell the truth. Any advisor who cannot show you the after-cost, after-tax return on your portfolio is either not tracking it or not comfortable showing it.
4
"Have you ever recommended something you personally would not invest in?" The most revealing question. A commission-driven advisor may recommend products they would never choose for themselves. A good advisor should be able to answer this without hesitation.
5
"What happens to your income if we exit our investments?" If the answer is "nothing" — they earn a fee from you regardless. If the answer involves commissions stopping, their incentive is to keep you invested even when you should exit.
The conflict is not personal. Most commission-driven advisors are decent people trying to do a good job. The problem is that their business model structurally cannot put your interests first — even when they want to.
— CA Ujjwal Sainani, NextGen Family Office Services

What the Regulatory Framework Actually Says

Advisor Type Comparison — India 2026

Regulatory status
Can charge advisory feeRIA Only
Can earn product commissionDistributor Only
Fiduciary duty to clientRIA Only
Must disclose all conflictsRIA: Mandatory
Can do both fee + commissionNot Permitted
Regulated by SEBIBoth

SEBI's Investment Adviser regulations make this very clear: you cannot be both a distributor and an RIA for the same client. Any advisor who says they offer "fee-based advice" while also earning commissions is operating in a grey zone — or misrepresenting their regulatory status.

What Working With a Genuinely Aligned Advisor Actually Looks Like

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They review what you already own honestly
Including products sold to you by others. They tell you the truth about what is working and what is not — even if the answer is uncomfortable.
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Recommendations come with full cost disclosure
Every product recommendation includes the total cost of ownership — expense ratios, transaction costs, taxes — before you decide.

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